I want to take you on a journey. Come along. The story starts with the Summer of Baseball… visiting 11 baseball stadiums on a 4,000 mile road trip around the Midwest. But traveling for 24 days by oneself can get dull. Some “company” would be nice.
I had been previously using Tinder but with middling results. Sure, I had met some nice women, but this trip didn’t afford me the time for “relationship building”. This was about sex… mostly about giving oral sex. Being subtle in my profile about my intentions wasn’t going to cut it. And just saying “Looking for a hookup” or “Looking for fwb” wasn’t going to get me noticed.
I had to be bold. I had to be direct. I had to state my case clearly and loudly.
Continue reading “In the beginning…”
I had a few days between my initial 12-hour long haul to the Midwest and my first game in Cincinnati. Tinder wasn’t being very helpful so I used this time to tweak my profile. Yes, being bold was definitely the way to go. I also realized that women in their 30’s and older tended to need a few days notice in order to be “spontaneous”. Tinder’s premium subscription option would allow me to swipe in upcoming cities!
Perfect. Best $19 I’ve ever spent.
I planned that after the game in Cincinnati I was going to be spending the night around Louisville so that I could go to the Louisville Slugger Museum during lunch. I didn’t have a place to stay… figured I’d just nap in my car in a rest area.
But then I swiped right and matched on Sara in Louisville. No, she couldn’t host (i.e., also give me a place to crash) but after chatting with her for a little while I knew she was going to be My First on the trip. I knew she was going to be fun so I booked a hotel room so we could play later that night when I got to Louisville.
Continue reading “July 21, 2015 – Cincinnati & Louisville (Sara)”
Today we are very fortunate to have Sara provide her perspective on the evening we shared together. Here is her unedited side of the story…
I met James on one of those online websites. His profile was intriguing, and he was very direct in what he was seeking. His claim was that he was very orally focused, and that was all that he wanted to do, and he even posted quotes from other recipients of their experiences with him. Although, initially I was not planning on responding to his profile, I did, and after several discussions with him, I opted to see if what he said matched what he could do. I figured that I could always walk away if I didn’t feel the chemistry.
We met at a local bar that was known for their unique beer, which was imported weekly from different countries – Germany, Belgium, France, and some local state beers. He walked in and he looked GOOD. He was nicely dressed considering he just came from a ballgame in Cincinnati. He complimented me and said that I was more beautiful in person…”two points for James”. We sat together and just talked about various things, just trying to get to know each other a little bit better. Occasionally, he put his hand on my leg and played with the tear in my jeans, at the knee. It was a small, but sexy gesture that made me want to be more intimate with him. As I was talking to him, I wanted to know what it was like to kiss him.
Continue reading “Sara’s Side of the Story”